Engagement Gifts - 5 Great Ideas
When two people promise to marry each other...they are known to be engaged or betrothed. The period of time before the wedding can be long or short, depending on the couple. The beginning of an "engagement" period is thought to have begun in 1215, when Pope Innocent III decreed that "marriages are to be ...announced publicly in the churches by the priests during a suitable and fixed time, so that if legitimate impediments exist, they may be known."
Traditionally, engagements were announced by the bride's parents at a gathering. Since the guests did not know the reason for the party, engagement gifts were typically not given.
Today, most couples share their happy news with friends and families in a less formal way. It is, however, still a very exciting time for the bride and groom and their families. Engagement parties may be held for the new couple, providing the opportunity to meet each other's extended family and friends before the wedding. In essence, the engagement party is a celebration for all who are happy for the couple and their pending marriage. The party can be a very informal gathering or a formal affair. If a party if given, you will probably want to bring or send a gift.
In some families and social circles engagement gifts are routinely given, regardless of whether there is a party. In others, they are not. Parents and close relatives may give a gift to commemorate the happy occasion and welcome the new member of the family. There really is no "correct" rule. But, if you want to give a gift...I have a few great suggestions!
1. Salt and Peppers - "Pairs" are always appropriate gifts for the newly engaged. These spices are perfect compliments for each other...as the newly engaged couple should be! They hold different spices, but together they are a wonderful "pair".
2. L'Objet Swan Serving Bowl - Swans signify pure and enduring relationship. The birds are not only beautiful and graceful, they mate for life. A perfect symbol for the engaged couple!
3. Liberty of London Napkin Rings - Today, napkin rings are most often used to enhance our table setting's decor. Originally, however, napkin rings were used to signify each family member's napkin, which was to be used during the week until the Monday washday. Since 1875, Liberty of London fabrics have been synonymous with fabulous design and wonderful fabrics. Start with two, let the married couple add more. A wonderful combination for those beginning a new family together...tradition with style!
4. Cocktail Napkins - Great earth friendly gift for all who entertain!
5. Old Newbury Crafters Victorian Cake Server - Fourteen generations of hand forging sterling silver in New England make any piece of Old Newbury Crafters silverware an exquisite gift. This cake server will be used at the wedding and can be passed down for use at all family celebrations. Engraving is available and you have a gift for the generations!
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